If a child grows up to be kind, healthy, responsible, self-sufficient, and decent—but not wealthy—has the sacrifice failed? Most people would instinctively say no. Yet many families behave as though the answer is yes. Not openly, of course. No parent sits their child down and says, "I didn't raise you to be happy. I raised you to be rich." But expectations have a way of revealing themselves. In comparisons with more successful relatives. In questions about promotions, land, and home ownership. In the disappointment that hangs in the air when a child is doing well enough to survive but not well enough to transform the family's fortunes. And perhaps nowhere is this tension more visible than in Kenya, where sacrifice is often treated as the highest form of love. Parents sacrifice for their children. Older siblings sacrifice for younger siblings. Entire generations sacrifice in the hope that the next one will live better. But what happens when sacrifice quietly becomes an...
In Kenya, we love the idea of wealth. We want it, chase it, and admire those who have it. But do we ever stop to ask: What is true wealth? Is it a German machine with a KDJ plate? A big house in Kitengela that you’re barely ever in? Or is it something deeper—freedom from financial stress, control over your time, and peace of mind? We live in a culture that pressures us to show success even when we are drowning in debt. Loans for lifestyle upgrades, unnecessary spending to keep up appearances, and the constant need for more leave many feeling stuck in an endless hustle. Maybe it’s time to rethink wealth—not as having more, but as needing less. The Wisdom of the Ages Great thinkers throughout history have questioned the value of excess wealth. Their words remain as relevant today as they were centuries ago: "Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants." — Epictetus "Money often costs too much." — Ralph Waldo Emerson "Frugality includ...