If a child grows up to be kind, healthy, responsible, self-sufficient, and decent—but not wealthy—has the sacrifice failed? Most people would instinctively say no. Yet many families behave as though the answer is yes. Not openly, of course. No parent sits their child down and says, "I didn't raise you to be happy. I raised you to be rich." But expectations have a way of revealing themselves. In comparisons with more successful relatives. In questions about promotions, land, and home ownership. In the disappointment that hangs in the air when a child is doing well enough to survive but not well enough to transform the family's fortunes. And perhaps nowhere is this tension more visible than in Kenya, where sacrifice is often treated as the highest form of love. Parents sacrifice for their children. Older siblings sacrifice for younger siblings. Entire generations sacrifice in the hope that the next one will live better. But what happens when sacrifice quietly becomes an...
In Kenya, owning a car is often seen as a major milestone—a sign that one has “made it.” But is a car truly a necessity, or is it sometimes a financial burden disguised as progress? With rising fuel costs, expensive maintenance, and the reality of Nairobi’s notorious traffic, does car ownership always make sense? Let’s break it down with real numbers and scenarios. When Owning a Car Makes Sense Your Commute is Expensive or Inconvenient If you spend more than KES 20,000 per month on transport due to long commutes or unreliable matatu routes, owning a car might actually save you money. Professionals working in industrial areas, EPZs, or locations with limited public transport options may benefit from a car. Your Work Requires It If your job involves frequent travel (sales, medical reps, site visits), a car may be necessary to maintain efficiency. Business owners transporting goods regularly may find a car (or even a small van) more cost-effective than hiring transport services. You Have ...