Perhaps one of the most overlooked privileges is not wealth itself, but having enough margin in your life to respond to reality. Over the last few years, we have become fluent in the language of privilege, speaking easily about financial privilege, pretty privilege, racial privilege, passport privilege, educational privilege and social privilege, and in doing so we have become increasingly aware that people do not all start from the same place and that some doors open more easily for some than for others. Yet there is one form of privilege that seems to receive far less attention, and that is the privilege of being able to do something with the information you have, not simply knowing, but acting, because the truth is that information alone changes very little. We like to imagine that if people only knew better, they would do better, and entire industries are built around this assumption, from self-help books and documentaries to podcasts, awareness campaigns, public health initiative...
Let’s say it happens. You — or your partner, or friend — connect with someone else. Deeply. Emotionally. Maybe even sexually. Does that automatically mean something is broken? That love has ended? That someone was fake or unfaithful or lost? Not necessarily. Connection does not cancel connection. This isn’t electricity — it’s human energy. And human energy multiplies , not divides. The Rush to Abandon One for the Other Here’s what often happens: Someone feels seen in a new way. Their soul lights up in this fresh connection. They suddenly feel alive , new , desired , understood . And they take that feeling to mean: “This is real. That other relationship must be dead.” But this is a trap. What they’re often experiencing isn’t truer love — it’s novelty , reflection , an uncovered aspect of self that the new person evokes. And instead of integrating that part into their life and growing , they throw the old thing away to chase the new mirror. The tragedy? It...