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The Price of Everything — and the Value of Freedom

  There’s a line I came across that I haven’t been able to forget: " In some ways, wealth simply means paying attention to the prices you pay." It sounds simple, almost obvious. But when you really think about it — it’s quietly revolutionary. Because we Kenyans, like much of the world, are always paying. We pay in shillings, in time, in stress, in sleep, in borrowed peace. And most times, we do it without noticing. The tragedy isn’t that life is expensive — it’s that we don’t realize what it’s truly costing us. The Hidden Prices We Pay We live in a world that constantly tells us what we should want. The right phone. The right shoes. The right wedding. The right image of success. We nod along, swipe the card, take the loan, and promise ourselves we’ll figure it out later. Because everyone else seems to be doing the same. But everything has a price. That phone upgrade may cost you your emergency fund. That flashy lifestyle may cost you your peace of mind. That “soft ...

Mantras for the Journey: Words to Keep You Going When Making Financial Sacrifices

Financial discipline often means making tough choices—choosing public transport over car ownership, skipping luxuries to build a savings cushion, or postponing vacations to secure a home. The journey can feel isolating, frustrating, and sometimes even discouraging, especially when peers seem to be enjoying a more carefree life. In these moments, having a personal mantra—a simple, powerful phrase—can help center your mindset, reinforce your ‘why,’ and keep you focused on the bigger picture. Here are some mantras to guide you through different aspects of financial sacrifice and goal-setting. 1. For Choosing Public Transport Over a Car “Every sacrifice has a purpose. Every saved shilling builds my future. My journey may be crowded, but my destination is clear.” When matatu chaos makes you question your decision, this mantra reminds you of the bigger picture. Every shilling saved on fuel, insurance, and maintenance moves you closer to financial security. Your journey may be tough, but the ...

Why Do Kenyan Parents Hoard Their Inheritance?

In Kenya, inheritance is a mystery novel with missing pages. Parents buy land, build businesses, invest in property, but when you ask about the future, suddenly, it's 'God’s plan.' The same parents who struggle day and night to provide will let their children battle through terrible jobs instead of integrating them into family businesses. Why? The Kenyan Parent’s Mindset: “I Suffered, You Must Suffer Too” If you ask many Kenyan parents why they don’t teach their children about their businesses—whether it’s a successful dairy farm, a well-stocked kiosk, or a thriving matatu business—the answer is often, “Si mimi nilianza na zero, hata wewe utaanza na zero.” Translation? “I started from nothing, so should you.” This suffering Olympics mindset is why many Kenyans graduate straight into struggle while their parents have assets that could cushion them. Farming is for ‘Shamba Boys’ but Not Their Children Take a family that owns acres of farmland and makes a solid income from far...