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The Hardest Things to Let Go Of Are Sometimes the Ones We Still Love

When I was a little girl, I had these hand-me-down shoes that I loved. I wore them everywhere. Anywhere, really. I don't think I cared whether they were appropriate for where I was going. If those were the shoes I wanted to wear, then those were the shoes I was wearing. And when they became too small, I still didn't want to let them go. I would squeeze my feet into them and somehow convince myself that they still fit. I imagine an adult looking at me and thinking, Child, these shoes are clearly too small. Please take them off. But I loved them. And I think about those shoes sometimes when I hear us talk about things like seasons, letting go, releasing, creating room, moving on. Usually, when we talk about letting go, there is something wrong with the thing we're letting go of. It has become toxic. It doesn't serve us anymore. It is holding us back. We have outgrown it. We need to make room for something better. And yes, sometimes that is exactly what letting go looks li...
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The Price of a Bargain: Why “It’s Not a Bargain If You Don’t Need It” Should Be Every Kenyan’s Mantra

“It’s not a bargain if you don’t need it.” This phrase has quietly become my compass whenever a flashy deal or discount catches my eye. It’s simple, but powerful. And in a world that constantly pushes us to buy more, grab every offer, and never miss a sale, it’s the question we all need to ask ourselves. Walk into any Kenyan supermarket like Quickmart or Naivas on discount day, and you’ll see a battlefield of bargains. Buy-one-get-one-free offers, 50% discounts, and flash sales everywhere. Chicken Inn and Pizza Inn tempt you with their famous “ Wacky Wednesday ” deals — two meals for the price of one or ridiculously low prices on combos that almost feel too good to be true. But are they really bargains? Or just clever traps? Take a moment and think: How often do you finish both pizzas from that deal, especially if you’re eating alone? How many times have you bought plastic gadgets or trinkets from shops like Miniso or China Square because they were “cheap,” only to realize la...
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Wealth, Frugality, and the Kenyan Hustle: Rethinking Financial Success

In Kenya, we love the idea of wealth. We want it, chase it, and admire those who have it. But do we ever stop to ask: What is true wealth? Is it a German machine with a KDJ plate? A big house in Kitengela that you’re barely ever in? Or is it something deeper—freedom from financial stress, control over your time, and peace of mind? We live in a culture that pressures us to show success even when we are drowning in debt. Loans for lifestyle upgrades, unnecessary spending to keep up appearances, and the constant need for more leave many feeling stuck in an endless hustle. Maybe it’s time to rethink wealth—not as having more, but as needing less. The Wisdom of the Ages Great thinkers throughout history have questioned the value of excess wealth. Their words remain as relevant today as they were centuries ago: "Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants." — Epictetus "Money often costs too much." — Ralph Waldo Emerson "Frugality includ...
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Know Thyself: The Quiet Power of Naming Your Nature

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