Kenyans are known for their warmth, charm, and ability to make friends anywhere. But once we share a space, it’s like the social contract gets torn up and tossed in the bin. Whether it’s in the matatu, the office, or right in our own homes, here are the everyday crimes we’ve all seen — and maybe even committed.
1. The Loud Music DJ
Why keep your music to yourself when you can share it with the whole neighborhood? These are the people who think a matatu, estate courtyard, or office is their personal club. Bonus points if the speaker is cheap and adds that fuzzy shhhhhh sound in the background. And if it’s early morning gospel before coffee? That’s a direct attack.
2. The TikTok & Reels Without Earphones Crew
It’s never just one video. It’s a marathon of TikTok's, Instagram Reels, and WhatsApp statuses — all on full volume. And of course, they’ll stop midway, shove the phone in your face, and say: “Angalia hii! Hii itakufurahisha.” Now you’ve lost three minutes of your life you’ll never get back.
3. The Phone Call Shouter
We’ve all met them — or heard them — from three streets away. Every phone call is a public performance:
“HALO! NIKO HAPA KWA STAGE! EEEEH… HII NYAMA ILILETWA SAA NGAPI?!”
By the end, you know their business plans, their cousin’s nickname, and exactly how much they bought sukuma for.
4. The Meal-Time Offender
Some foods are just not meant for shared spaces. But tell that to the guy warming leftover fried fish in the office microwave or the cousin who decides to peel sugarcane in the sitting room. Even worse are the loud chewers — every bite sounds like an ASMR recording you never signed up for.
5. The Fridge Criminal
This is the silent killer of peace in Kenyan homes. They’ll leave just enough food so it’s useless to the next person. Why leave only the neck of the chicken — who exactly is supposed to eat it? Why leave one sip of juice that can barely fill a baby’s sippy cup — who is supposed to drink it? If you’ve done this before, just know… we saw you, and we remember.
6. The Nosy Neighbor (or Colleague)
There’s curiosity, and then there’s interrogation.
“Ulikuwa wapi?” “Unawatch nini?” “Nani alikupigia?”
They will ask personal questions with the confidence of a CID officer — and get offended if you don’t answer.
7. The Bad Car Parker
Shared parking spaces are a test of character. Then you have the people who park diagonally, take up two slots, or block someone else “just for five minutes” — which somehow turns into two hours. They’ll even leave their phone in the house, so you can’t call them to move.
8. The Laundry Line Hoarder
They’ve turned the shared hanging line into their personal wardrobe. Clothes stay there for days, soaking up sun, rain, and dust, while everyone else struggles to find space. If you remove their clothes to make room, be ready for war.
9. The Matatu Feaster
Boiled maize, eggs with chili, even ugali and stew in a lunchbox — some people will eat anything in a moving matatu. Never mind the smell, the crumbs, or the fact that you’re inches away from their elbow.
10. The Oversharer with Strangers
You meet them on a bus, in a queue, or in the waiting area of an office, and before you know it, you know their marital problems, their salary, and the full story of why they stopped talking to their aunt in 2015. It’s a free TED Talk you never asked for.
11. The Relative Who Overstays
They came for “just a weekend.” It’s been two weeks. They’re not contributing to shopping, they’ve rearranged your furniture, and they openly ignore your house rules. By the time they leave, you’ve aged three years.
12. The Book Mutilator
You kindly lend them your favorite novel, the one you’ve kept in pristine condition for years. When they return it — if they return it — the pages have dog ears, tea stains, and maybe even a bite mark from their toddler. The once-crisp cover now looks like it survived a flood and a fight with a goat. And when you complain, they’ll casually shrug and say, “Ai, si ni kitabu tu.” That was your trust you folded, not just the page.
13. The Call Control Freak
You’re the one who called, but somehow, they insist on being the one to end the conversation. You’ll be mid-sentence when they suddenly cut in with a sharp, “Okay, sawa, we’ll talk,” and hang up—leaving you holding your phone like, “Wait… was I just dismissed from my own call?”
14. The Time Terrorist
You agree to meet at 2 p.m. They stroll in at 4:37 p.m., smiling like they’ve just won a humanitarian award. No apology, just a casual, “Si you know me, I don’t do time.” Meanwhile, your entire afternoon has evaporated. If keeping time was an Olympic sport, they wouldn’t even qualify for the spectators’ section.
15. The WhatsApp Bomber – These are the relatives, neighbors, or old classmates who keep adding you to endless WhatsApp groups—school reunions, extended family drama, pyramid schemes, morning devotion, and “investment opportunities” that somehow involve giving them money. If you exit the group, they take it personally and add you back like it’s a hostage rescue mission.
16. The Stinky-Footed Visitor – You welcome them into your home, offer them tea, maybe even chapati… and then they remove their shoes. Suddenly, the room smells like it’s holding a memorial service for all the socks they’ve never washed. You can’t even enjoy your own hospitality.
17. The Toilet Offender – Sometimes you can’t hold it and must use a public toilet—we understand. But must you do a full number two in there, turning the stall into a war zone? And let’s not even talk about the people who put their feet on the toilet seat like they’re climbing Mount Kenya. We all have to use that toilet after you, please respect the next soldier in line.
18. The Queue Jumper – You’re standing in a long line at the bank, supermarket, or stage, patiently waiting your turn, when someone strolls right to the front with a casual, “Ah, I just want to ask a quick question.” Next thing you know, they’re being served fully while you’re still sweating in line. Their “quick question” is a 20-minute transaction, and you’re left wondering if patience is just for fools.
19. The Chronic Borrower – They’ll borrow your pen, stapler, charger, cooking pot, or even unga with the words “I’ll return it tomorrow.” Tomorrow turns into three weeks, and when you finally ask for it back, they look surprised and say, “Oh… I thought you didn’t need it.” Next time, they’ll still ask again, and still be shocked when you say no.
20. The Last-Minute Texter – They’ll invite you to a wedding, birthday party, harambee, or Chama meeting exactly 30 minutes before it starts. And when you politely say you can’t make it, they reply, “Eh, but you’re always at home doing nothing!” On the flip side, they’re also the ones who cancel plans at the very last minute—when you’re already dressed, shoes on, keys in hand… or worse, when you’ve already arrived. Suddenly, your whole afternoon is wasted, and they just say, “We’ll do it another time.”
Conclusion
We all have our quirks, but maybe we can leave the loud music, fridge crimes, and bad parking habits behind. After all, shared spaces work best when everyone remembers they’re… well, shared. Until then, brace yourself — because the next culprit is probably already in your living room.
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